What happens in a session
Each session starts with a conversation about your intentions, desires and needs. Based on what is alive in that moment for you I will offer different somatic exercises for you to choose from. I will support you using clearly defined exercises and co-created agreements. In this way the sessions are tailored to your personal intentions and needs, and we co-create them together.
To feel connected with ourselves and with others, we must feel safe. To create a sense of safety and connection, we start with consent. Through embodied consent, we learn to become more sexually safe for ourselves and others. Our sessions together provide a clear container for you to learn and to discover these skills. There will be lots of time to practice and to be clunky and playful, without pressure or expectations. You learn how to notice, trust, and honor your desires and boundaries and how to communicate them to others.
At any time during the session, you can change your mind, and we will re-evaluate what’s next. We may do all the practices we intended on doing. We will never do anything we did not agree to at the start of the session.
After the active part of the session, there is time for integration. Integrating to a new point of reference in pleasure and embodiment is as important as the active part of the session.
I will prepare exercises tailored to your aims and intentions, allowing you to continue your practice in the comfort of your home.
After our first session, we will discuss the option of a series of sessions tailored to your unique situation.
Examples of topics we can work on
Consent and boundary skills
Scar-tissue remediation
Anatomy that is useful for your sex life
Being more present during sex
More control over when, if, and how you orgasm
Developing a more loving relationship with your body
Premature ejaculation and erectile difficulties
Your relationship with porn
Relaxed states of arousal
Self-pleasure and masturbation
Your (sexual) confidence
Experiences of pain during sex or in your genitals
Learning to notice, value, and communicate your desires
How to receive pleasure and erotic touch
Befriending shame and anxiety
Your relationship with anal pleaure
Experiencing new types of pleasure with yourself and your partner(s)
Unlearning sexual conditioning and rewriting your erotic script
Safety, Integrity, and Ethics
Your safety is my top priority. That’s why I am affiliated with the ACSB and receive regular supervision. My work and our sessions adhere to the ACSB ethical code of conduct. If you ever have a complaint about my work, you can report it to them.
Here are some key guidelines regarding the integrity of our sessions and the safety of both you and me:
Privacy: Everything discussed during our sessions remains confidential. I do not share session content with anyone, except in supervision, where all details are fully anonymized.
This is not sex work: I always remain fully clothed, and touch is strictly one-way (from me to you). All touch is solely for the purpose of your learning and personal growth, with full respect for your boundaries.
I am not a surrogate partner: There will never be any romantic or sexual involvement between me and a client.
Strict hygiene protocol: I follow a strict hygiene protocols.
Consent is fundamental: Everything we do is based on your explicit consent. You can withdraw your consent at any time and, if necessary, end the session.
